Share your fantasy with your new friends and ask if they might be interested in helping you realize it.Īnd your fantasy is totally realizable - I’ve seen very similar ones realized once or twice - but the only way to do so safely is with a couple of trusted friends hovering nearby. Go to a few parties, keep your pants on, introduce yourself around, and find a couple or two with whom you click. You could probably walk into a sex club and bend over - lord knows some gay men do just that - but it would be a bad idea.īut you can realize your fantasy, TAN, and here’s how: Most swinger clubs permit couples and single women to attend parties (sorry, single guys).
There’s a sex club nearby that looks like it might cater to my fantasy, but can I just walk in off the street and bend over? Do I need to go a few times first and talk to people? That kind of kills the fantasy of it, really. I realize this would have to take place in a safe environment, but most sex clubs or parties tend to be for swingers, specifically couples. My fantasy is to be blindfolded, bent over a table/couch/whatever, and fucked by whoever happens to walk by. I have a fantasy I can’t find much about online, so I figured I’d ask you for advice.
I am a 34-year-old straight, single female.
